Thread for sharing pictures, stories and advice about anal masturbation and sex.The more pictures, the better!>Questions of the day.How anal changed your life? Have your diet improved? Have you stopped doing penile/vaginal masturbation entirely? Something else? Tell us.Previous thread >>10996247>FAQ - Read it before postinghttps://rentry.org/analgenfaq>Regdude's Technical guide to anal (very detailed, recommended to all butt sluts)https://github.com/regdude/anal>Panty's Guide to Anal Training & Blowjobshttps://imgchest.com/p/vj4j8j6978m>SurfboardPotato's Guide to Prostate Playhttps://old.reddit.com/r/CumFromAnal/comments/8w065w/a_guide_to_prostate_orgasms_from_someone_very/>What's the lighter test?It's a way to know if your chinesium toy is in fact silicone. Follow this guide:https://dangerouslilly.com/2014/03/deciphering-results-of-flame-test/>Anon’s Guide to Knottinghttps://rentry.org/anons-dildo-knotting-guide>Say hellohttps://tagmap.io/tag/analgen>Sock & Condom Stretchinghttps://imgur.com/SJf78lU>Anon does the math with J-Lubehttps://imgur.com/a/cuLRo2u>JLube Testing by /ftt/ ScienceAnonhttps://pastebin.com/EJsAc4GU>Cleaning techniques and alternative methodshttps://pastebin.com/FLWghXvy>Mindgasmhttps://youtu.be/9pSzsx3NwIs>Slim Shell Mold Making Tutorial (DIY Dildos)https://files.catbox.moe/m7ansn.pdf
I LOVE BEING A BUT SLUT!
Does anyone know of a site like vndb.com but for hentai (animated videos) rather than visual novels?want to be able to search tags and find some with pegging/prostate play but not sure what the best way to do that is.
When I get into a good session, every time I pause for a moment, I tell myself I'm gonna stop there but I get too greedy for more too easily. It ends up that I don't know when to stop after giving myself orgasm after orgasm and tend to end up hurting myself and being sore for a week afterwards. I'm not sure if this is a problem or not.
I'm gonna do a session tomorrow and I had some questions. I have coconut oil and water based, can I use them together and if so is there an order or application style I should do so? I'm trying to stay lubed longer and water based doesn't last long but I was wondering what could be done if I used both
>>11005057>can i mix oil and water>oil and water>the things that famously don't mixjust go with the oil anon
>>11005057I've used both for exactly that reason, coconut oil lasts much longer but isn't as smooth, I've used it as a "base" and just add water based as needed
I've been trying to feel anything from my butt, however I feel like I've had very little success. I keep trying because mentally it sounds very hot but in practice I feel very little. I have a large dildo and a lovense edge 2, I've even DIYed a suction base for the dildo to use it with a massage gun that I have, figured something that vibrates with that amount of force and also in a slight in and out motion might get me to feel something but no luck. Massagers, hands and toys, fingers, I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. I did get some strange sensations and got incredibly aroused the first time I tried mindgasm, but I've tried a couple of times after that and it was never the same. Oh well, I'm not going to quit yet.
I keep looking for a need to pee feeling when I'm exploring my butt, but it's just piss every time. I feel like I'm all bladder and no prostate. I can't even get myself to leak pre
>>11005091make sure to pee before you start and be confident your not gonna piss your bed or just put down a towel and stop caring if you piss your bed
>>11005013Butt sluts are the best sluts
>>11005130I think I'm on my away to be a good butt slut.About a month only doing anal masturbation, no fapping and this in combination with the anal only mindset may be giving results.My erections are lasting very little and unless I keep stroking, I go limp. A limp dick can't fuck, therefore I'm only bottom and this already took effect in my sex life (but that's a blog post).
Anyone seen any guides on how to fill your bladder with fake cum? I wanna 'cum' like the trap camsluts
>>11005075Start with a smaller dildo. Vibrations won't do much if not applied properly, and more intense vibrations tend to do less because the prostate is not sensitive in the same way that the glans of your penis is.
>>11005151You run a well-lubricated catheter into your urethra, then relax like you're going to pee to get it the rest of the way in there.
>bought a big glass plug>comfortable when inserted>big and hard, presses against my bones going in>also means it doesnt go out easily, feels safe>so smooth it barely requires relubing on long term wear>can look inside myself with a mirrorThis was a great purchase. I sure hope it won't break in use though.
>>11005177Glass for furniture and home use is orders of magnitude higher strength than glass bottles and stuff that's for one time use. I've seen stuff that says you're not supposed to put a broken glass cups into the recycling with the beer bottles and whatnot since the types of glass are just that different
>>11005075It sounds like you are being a bit too impatient and expecting pleasure quickly and expecting more intense stimulation to feel better, which has not been my experience. Start slow, take your time, and locate your prostate with your smallest dildo or toy. This isn't about play just yet, more about figuring things out.When you locate your prostate, it may feel like you have to pee or give an electric jolt through your dick. This isn't typically pleasurable but it does indicate the right location. Try to be fairly certain of it, squeeze down a bit and relax a few times. Once located, back off on the pressure and just establish a faint presence - just the slightest amount of pressure that makes you aware of your prostate. If your toy isn't small enough to be in direct contact without giving a lot of stimulation, then back it out - you just want the faintest, barely noticeable sensation right now.Let it sit in place, give it at least 5 minutes with you totally relaxed and then start wiggling it gently, or squeezing your PC muscles, or playing with your nipples, or some combination of those. Usually I go through cycles of getting hard and soft for some longer toys as I squeeze down and relax for a few seconds repeatedly.
>>11005200If I want a short session, I can do this until I cum, about 10-20 minutes of first insertion (my record is going from flaccid to getting hard and cumming handsfree within 2 minutes of toy insertion). But I recommend taking a 5 minute break after 20-45 minutes depending on lube performance or discomfort, let things relax.Lube up again and re-insert. The pleasure should return quite quickly, and play as you see fit. I've experimented with a fair amount of toys and stimulation types and have found that you can have several different prostate orgasms and the difference between ejaculation and orgasm can be quite striking when found. I've had an almost sensation-less ejaculation while flaccid, which was bizarrely arousing and left my cock just drooling prosaic fluid. I've also had some super intense, eye-rolling, groaning out loud orgasms with or without being hard, and with out without ejaculating.
>>11005062Didn't ask to mix, asked techniques for use, for instance applying the coconut lube to the toy and applying water otherwise so I can get the slip of water but the staying of the oil, plus them not mixing would be good wouldn't it? Wouldn't they have less traction together?
>>11005217NTA, but when I tried it the coconut oil seemed to become clumpy with the lube instead of staying slick and oily, and it was worse than either of them alone. Not sure why.
>>11005091Keep pissing and don't worry too much about leaking pre or whatever... Alternatively, you could do your session in the bathtub so you can freely pee without thinking too much about it.
>>11005144Sounds very based... I'm jealous.
trying to decide whether to move up to plug related, for context the one I'm using is 7.5" around, and that one is 8.5"
my session yesterday was amazing but i feel like i rely on weed a little too much. i was aggressive and clumsy before smoking and had an erection, after i got high i fucked that dildo so sensually and slowly and i don't even know how much time i spent orgasming. i tried every way i could come up with and it took hours. i think the wildest thing i discovered is super long and deep strokes while lying down, it's just the whole range of sensations each time.
>>11005003Is there any measurement guide to know if it fits or not?Also do any of you try chastity?
>>11005003anal beads and femboys...
So every time I try squeezing my PC muscle a lot after I haven't done it for a while, after I pee it doesnt fully come out. I'm guessing I need to do pelvic floor stretches first?
>>11005144>therefore I'm only bottom and this already took effect in my sex life (but that's a blog post).Post
>>11005571i never tried anal beads but they seem messy considering the plopping
>>11005641and not big enough, having a string of knots could be fun, but most of the beads I see around are just tiny
so at about 6 inches deep i feel a resistance that doesn't respond to relaxing or pushing at all. my dildo seems to slot into place there and i can't go deeper, but it feels great. is that the bend or am i stuck at some sphincter? i really want to take that last bit of my dildo or alternatively i'll have to get one that's slightly shorter and thicker to bounce on properly.
>>11005568Help me I beg (You)
>>11005725what do you mean measurement guide? are you going to shove a ruler up your ass?and yes chastity is fun
>>11005718Get something long and tapered, like 9 inches long but with a thickness you know you can take at the bottom. Something like Bad Dragon's Sveinn for instance. Or a Slink from Squarepeg if you don't mind throwing money around.
>>11005718>is that the bendyesI imagine a toy for depth play experimentation that has a super flexible stem and a bulb on one end that would be able to navigate such a bend, but I've never gone past it myself and hear that it requires dedicated cleaning.> i really want to take that last bit of my dildo or alternatively i'll have to get one that's slightly shorter and thicker to bounce on properly.I have the same problem for one of my toys, except that I want to have it inside of me while sitting. I wish it were the exact same dimensions, only about one inch shorter.
>>11005749is it rewarding going past the bend? i really like the feeling i get after pushing into the inner sphincter but idk if it's just that spot and going thicker would satisfy me more.>>11005751exactly, i want to be able to sit on it safely and grind on it. and then maybe a knot or some bumps along the shaft to stimulate everything at once.
>>11005791>is it rewarding going past the bend?Depends on the person. Some people like the feeling of something going in and out of their sigmoid, while others don't really care for it. Going further than that though there aren't many nerve endings so you don't really feel much. It's more mental, and not personally something for me. I've put 21 inches of toy in me before and while it's kinda cool knowing it's all in there, it doesn't really feel as good as something shorter and more rideable.
>>11005602I've been single for three years now. All my past relationships were with girls and I topped them but I always felt something missing with sex, I didn't know if it was me or them.I did solo anal play twice during that period but I wasn't informed enough and ended up having a bad time but the appeal was there.After my last break up I decided to try anal again and that time I did my research. Cleaning, dieting, dildos, all the good stuff.With time I got more experienced and after my first anal orgasm I was hooked. Soon enough I learned how to be consistent in having anal orgasms and, at this point, started questioning my own sexuality.I didn't feel attracted to men and dominant women are incredible rare so I decided to pay a trans escort, the time frame is late 2022.She (yeah, whatever) was very considerate with me because I was feeling very insecure and vulnerable.I bottomed her and had an amazing time, her rimming got me in the mood and them she fucked me like a pro.I tried to top her but I couldn't keep my erection and she sucked me instead.When we were done, we had a good chat and exchanged personal contacts and did small talk over the time.After that experience I was doing more and more anal masturbation and less penile.I finally recognized myself as bottom only. It was like a boulder was lift from my shoulders, I'm bottom and I don't want to use my dick for penetration.A couple of months ago, I called this same trans girl again. I said I wanted to go out with her again and explained that I wanted to be bottom only. She gladly accepted.The experience was better than before, her rimming was great and when she fucked me, it was the best sex I ever had in my life. I was only focused on taking and even had an anal orgasm which she loved feeling my rectal muscles contracting on her.And that's how I now see myself as a butt slut, I don't need any dick stimulation whatsoever.
>>11005831How much did that cost?
>>11005838I'm not from the US so it's hard to put in a number that would make sense.First time, she charged fully. Not expensive if you only did once a month.Second time, she charged half and that was the last time I went out with her.We still chat sometimes but it's not like I'm her only client.
i love when i'm deep into a session and some soreness mixes into the pleasure. is this dangerous?
Is it normal to produce more precum after you start fucking your ass? For some reason I just leak like crazy these days, especially in anticipation of a good ass fuck. I do drink a lot of water to maybe that adds to it.
I need bigger things I need to stretch more I need to get stretched until I break
>>11005477Never tried plug from your pic but round bases tend to cut into my asscheeks, would recommend Squarepeg toys egg plug if you're in America
Man I miss living alone and being able to play with my ass whenever I want. Been months since I got a chance to play
>>11005003How do you all get rid of body hair and hair around the anus?
>>10998217Update, she was unable to walk after. Definitely increased my horniness level. It's hard to take her domming seriously, she's too cute and a lot smaller than me. The plug she bought me was pretty small. It was metal and the firmness was a nice change from my usual silicone toys, but too small to do a whole lot for me. "Wagging" the tail and letter her pull on it felt good. She was surprised at the size of the toys I had, but was also excited to get to use them on me. She wanted try some right away, but I wasn't clean and had to explain how it's a whole process that takes like an hour or two before I can take a decent size dildo. So now we're going to get a harness for her. Regular sex is too good so it'll never be anal only for us. I can usually cum 2 or 3 times in a session so, it'll replace the warmup handjob occasionally.
When do I need to start kegeling, like after what girth
>>11005791Yes, you cum so much harder when that second hole is getting plowed
>>11005564Nah embrace it, whatever makes you cum better is worth it
>>11005196They just don't want broken sharp glass retard
Any recommendations for shower enema? Or should I go with a handheld bulb? Seems significantly more convenient than a long shower with fingering to get clean
>>11006174Just stuff the shower head up your ass
>>11006303>mfw I am now hanging upside down by my ass on a shower headIt's a fixed one so that's impossible (and would be too big if it wasn't)
>>11006335That's how I do it, the extra blood flow to my head is like natural poppers
Every time I use my fuck machine I lube up heavily and always end up with a puddle of lube on the floor under my assHow do I keep it slick in my ass without needing to create a lube puddle cause it keeps coming out
>>11006143Now
oh fuck using your hand to guide the dildo so you can pull out fully while stroking is so intense
>>11006358If the toy shape has a mushroom head, it is going to pump/drag lube out, and as your canal closes behind it, lube will be pushed out. I assumed you've already tried lubing less but reapplying as needed?
How do you guys douche when you don't have that shower attachment thingy? I only have a regular handheld shower head, but since the anus forms a seal is not like the water can reach out inside to clean.
>>11005063jlube+water paired with crisco/coconut oil is the best combo,but apply the jlube after the oily lube or it will just slide off
Just tried a dildo and a plug for the first time.. fuck. First I lubed up a 3.5 inch plug and played with my hole and eventually worked it all the way in. Immediately I loved the feeling of fullness in my ass. It felt right. While wearing the plug I browsed on anonymous chat sites like Emerald until I found a guy and we exchanged Discords, and soon after I was sending him videos of me stuffing my hungry hole with lubed up dildo. He said I was a natural. It felt so humiliating and so good. I was leaking the whole time and trying not to touch. This lasted for about 45 minutes on and off until my ass was a bit sore, so I stopped. Lube was everywhere and my face felt so warm and my cock was leaking. I went up to go walk the dog and put my plug back in and I’m typing this now. My ass felt really empty after I stopped fucking it and it was unplugged. I’m so horny walking around it’s hard to think straight. Gonna cum to something good soon10/10. Lurker anons, get playing with that butt
Welcome butt slut in the making.Leaking on the first time indeed means you're natural or you're also big into humiliation and that did most of the work.Now you know why we these threads. Anal is so good it should be exposed more but there's a lot of prejudice to be overcome for both men and women.
>>11006403I really don't go all out in terms of clean-up, are you doing deep play? I have found that with enough fiber and a decent diet, I rarely need more than a lube-shooter half full of lube as a rinse out, and the lube almost always comes out clear. My toys aren't huge and I don't go deep, but I don't think I've had a session ruined by not being clean more than maybe three times in the last few years.>>11006411>3.5 inch plugwhich dimension is that, circumference, length, or diameter?
>>11006419Nothing deep, I just started and have a small dildo. My first time didn't go so well because when I pull it out the I could already see the brownish stuff on my dildo and that kind of ruined everything. I tried to clean was much as possible in the shower before that, even squatted on top of the shower head, but that wasn't enough sadly. I thought maybe I could do it without douching. Do you take Psyllium husk? or do just have a good fiber rich diet?
>>11006438>Do you take Psyllium husk?I do. I prefer the pill over mix and take one like twice a day.
Thoughts/experiences with cranking out a normal orgasm before butt stuff? I feel like it would reduce the urge to touch my dick during a session, but not sure of the tradeoffs.
>>11006544bad idea. just exercise better self control
>haven't been able to have a session in months due to IRL stuff>finally have today free>get my njoy magic wand in me>immediate satisfaction>yup it's go time>start browsing anal porn and hugging my wandit's gonna be a good night
>>11006603the only thing i'm lacking is someone (or preferably, some*thing*) else playing with my ass
>>11006603enjoy anon
>>11006403Will your handheld part unscrew so you just have the hose?Don't put it inside, just hold it to the outside and relax and let the water in.
>>11006385What are you trying to say, anon needs a horse cock up his ass?
>>11006603How do you use the wand?I know this is common, but I still can't get the bloody thing to work.
>>11005003>try many different toys over a couple of years>hmm maybe anal is not for me>no toys, one day play with nipples through shirt and do kegels at work>cum>am now addicted to stealth massaging my prostate at work
oh fuck i thought i was stuck, i was trying to go deeper all day yesterday but just now suddenly my sigmoid like popped open?? i can't fit more than the head of my dildo still but it looks like i'll hilt this thing after allomg i'll have the head of my dildo in my sigmoid and the knot right up against my prostate, the size is just right for it i can't waitalso i'm so merciless on my ass when i don't smoke beforehand it's a bit scary
>>11005997For me, this was true as well, not sure why. I also drink a lot of water so maybe that's part of it.>>11006041Yeah, round bases are rather evil, I have three plugs from a set with those little gem bases and they all chafe after a while. Serious bummer.>>11006115Nice, keep it up buttslut.I was the anon who asked two or three threads ago about trusted European brands. I ended up going with ylva-dite.com. I paid them that same weekend, but still nothing, not even a track and trace code in an email. I emailed their helpdesk, no reply either. I'm not sure if I'm ever going to get my stuff. I'm not sure if we do a list of stores to avoid in the OP, but it's at least good to know for people in this thread that they're probably not alive anymore.
is it normal to have a hard time getting more orgasms if you've been butt slutting for a few days in a row? or am i doing something else different, i've been a bit rougher with my ass today
>>11005003>the shit I get off to is more depraved>more of my budget is directed into toys instead of microtransactions. Not that I do much of the latter anymore >cutting down junk food, getting more fruit in my diet, notably bananas. Admittedly suck on them a little before biting when alone>anal only sound fun, but nothing beats the convenience of jerking off.>get turned on more by teasing nipples and throating dildo
>>11006818forgot about >qotd
>>11006818bananas and carrots are so good idk if its just my coombrain
Do toys big enough to make stomach bulges automatically come with anal prolapse risk?
>>11006892
>>11006892Hell yeah!Makes me kinda jelly.If you (both) enjoy bondage, try some shibari. I'd guess it could be a lot of fun together.
>>11006892>real-life imageget this shit outta here
>>11006851It's good alright.
should i get a fatter toy? mine is 1.5 inches diameter. feels nice but my ass got used to it over a few days and i can piston it into me without much issues. i'd like that full feeling on my prostate and everywhere again.
>>11007003>i'd like that full feeling on my prostate and everywhere againYou'll probably need to keep going bigger if that's what you're after. Targeted prostate stuff can be done with smaller toys, but if it was the feeling of fullness that you enjoyed most then you just have to keep going bigger until your body decides to stop needing more. I like that full feeling of thick toys, and toys kept becoming too small after a while until I got to around 2.8" thick. I've gone up to 3.5" since I like pushing my limits, but 2.8" still gives me that full feeling that I like.
>>11007010can i just take a break instead of that? if i wait a few days or a week will it feel tighter again? i want to keep it human sized at least, so maybe up to 2 inches
>>11007018You could try limiting yourself to once a week and seeing if you still feel satisfied. Everyone's different; some people adapt to new sizes really quickly and stay receptive to larger sizes for longer, while others can stay fulfilled with a 1.5" toy for years. Just hope you're like the latter.
>>11007027once a week seems okay if it can be a few hours at a time at least. that should give me time to build some anticipation and feel healthier anyway because i feel pretty degenerate after this weekend. i literally couldn't sleep because i was craving it again yesterday, had to fuck myself goodnight and then did it again in the morning.
Do you guys have a preference between k lube and x lube?
>>11006947Lol yea I didn't have anything else to illustrate the pose. The gif after is me, so balance is restored
>>11007098>The gif after is meI'll let it slide this time, if it happens again though I'm gonna track you down and punch you in the asshole
>>11007111Joke's on you I'd love that
>>11007111>and punch you in the assholeAnon, you're supposed to scare him not make him post more 3DPD garbage.And punch me instead if you're so tough.
does this have a name, someone using a dildo on someone else? it's not pegging, it's probably too specific to have a name
>>11007117yeah, it's called "stumpjugging"
>riding my new dildo while dressed like a clubbing slut while looking at myself in the mirror this site ruined me and i love it
>>11007124that term doesn't bring up anything
>>11007132haha, made you search for stumpjugging. Now your FBI agent is gonna be like "what the fuck is this retard looking up??"
>>11007141giwtwm in pic
>>11007141oh you rascal you got me put on a watchlist.
is the best existence to just be in a constant super orgasm?
>>11005057i get my toy covered in oil, and inject a mix of water/oil inside. if im riding i like to keep a fine mist spray bottle that i can re moisten the lube with mid ride>boybutter has been helping my lube last longer too imo>>11006358i just put a towel under me lol>ive started using boybutter more often, its pretty solid( like soft butter consistancy) and lasts a long time which has helped me cut back on the liquid ( as well as it sticking to to toy a lil better>>11006174i use bulb but only bc i dont have a place for a shower attachment, ik that the shower attachments can have a skill curve to know how much is going up there, bulb is nice as its mobile too.. tho i would get the attachment if i could as its supposedly easier>>11007091had 2 bottles of jlube and now on my first xlube.. imo jlube is easier to mix, but x lube feels maybe a lil slicker? and ik that X lasts longer than j.overall they are comparable enough that i dont think it matters that much... maybe slight preference to X?>>11007127i dont think ur ruined :) i think that ur being tru to yourself!
>>110070031.5" is pretty thin, just size up
>>11007127im a butt newbie, but if i were to compare myself a month ago to now it would be such a shocking juxtaposition… i just love playing with my butt now.
>>11007091K is cheaper, mixes better, basically identical to X in consistency, and available on amazon in the US if that's relevant to you
Session ended early last night because I got to the point that I was pumping a medium tucker from bd, knot and all, from tip to base at an appreciable speed for 15 minutes and I finally had to just cum to give my prostate a break. That was going to be my warmup toy for the evening, oh well.
>How anal changed your life? Have your diet improved? Have you stopped doing penile/vaginal masturbation entirely? Something else? Tell us.I really think anal just brings out your inner nature. I had bisexual tendencies since I was a teen, but always chickened out to try it with another guy. AND I've always been kinda like a people pleaser, so... Once I started playing with my ass, shaving and putting on female clothes it just clicked in me. It became apparent to me that I must fuck guys, take dick in my ass, suck and swallow cum. The more I watched sissy hypno and the more I fantasized about other men railing me while hopping on a rubber dick, the closer I was to an anal handsfree orgasm. Of course, I achieved it.But more importantly, I started meeting men. They haven't fucked me yet, but I regularly suck two men off. And I love it, love to lick and suck their balls, love them being rough with me. I asked one of them to film me on smartphone while I was blowing him. I like to watch the video while fucking myself with a dildo, looking in my own hungry eyes, and watching a man cumming on my tongue. I haven't stopped my penile masturbation, but it became rarer. I prefer to wait until I'm horny enough to be able to cum anally
>>11007283where do you usually meet guys? grindr?
my toy/lube drawer is full and my large toy bag is outta room, gonna have to figure out where to put shit now or a better option than an old messenger bag for my toys.>How anal changed your life? Have your diet improved? Have you stopped doing penile/vaginal masturbation entirely? Something else? Tell us.ive improved my diet and added extra fiber so my poops have been better and more regular which is nice, ive also started stretching for better reach and flexibility which will help in old age so all in all its been pretty good idea to put things up my butt. i still masturbate by stroking i even use a masturbator the travel fleshlight which honestly is the best option i think. the only other change has been my taste in porn it used to be bnwo humiliation shit but once i started using toys and getting my body better ive started getting off to gay and futa hentai which honestly is an improvement to my mental in my eyes. blog post over
>>11007295No, local dating sites
>>11007331>posting furry artI hope you do die.
>>11007335i do too but whats your bet am i gonna die or no
>>11007338doesnt the asshole bleed often? mine does more than any other body part even before i did buttstuff. I think you just gotta wait for the tissues to naturally regenerate, Like how your mouth does after you bite your lip
>>11007345aight so we gonna just consider this a healable injury no medical attention needed?
>>11007352Walk it off lol, hope its nothing more than a scratch
>>11007352how frequently are you seeing blood, whats its color and consistency, are you experience continual pain?if its light spotting just during bowel movements and bright red and thin it is the equivalent danger of a hemorroid which means non emergency and will go away in a bit
>>11007331Deserved
>>11006403Do you like needless complexity?
>>11006403You can get really big blunt-tipped syringes on Amazon for cheap. I use a 300ml and fill the bathroom sink with warm water. Works a charm.>>11007483lmao this is gold, MS Paint diagrams of improvised solutions to niche problems are one of the great treasures of life
>>11007576Glad you like. And the advantage over shower methods is that you can sit at your computer and shitpost while you fill up. It is slow, though. Air does not displace water efficiently.
>>11006403Most Pharmacy stores have sinus wash bottles, I've found those to be the most reliable and discreet method for cleaning myself out.Unironically, I've found them better than most traditional douches you get from sex shops too. They're clear bodied so you can see how much liquid is leftover, or if any "backwashing" has occurred, tapered tip that'll press up against the hole easier than an insertable tip on most douches, and they'll have a straw inside so they'll function more like >>11007483 and less like a plastic sauce bottle that only works when tipped upside down. Bonus points for being discreet as well, they don't look out of place in a bathroom or washbag or whatever, provided you keep a few of the little sachets of solution around.
>>11007338No one cares
Drench syringe is best for going up the butt for lube or just cleaning out
i cant stop getting hard at gay seggs, straight porn doesnt do anything for me anymore.
>>11005477smoll
>>11005831How you get anal O please explain
>>11006403I just get on all fours in the shower, gape myself and pour water from a cup. I dont do depth play (yet), so this is just enough to clean up the rectum
>>11007979>How you get anal O please explainI started with gathering information since I tried anal before and wasn't successful.Reading guides and personal experiences on many forums helped me in providing the basis for my attempts.Then I got a shower head for enema, lube, a small dildo and tried to find and stimulate my prostate while improving my diet for anal. Also avoided penile masturbation (very important).Tried many, MANY times and failed to get an orgasm in all my attempts.After taking a short break and thinking about it, the key lessons were to keep trying and to enjoy anal by itself and not only chase an orgasm.Another factor that greatly helped me was living alone. If I lived with parents or shared a house with someone not intimate, I wouldn't have enough privacy to masturbate and the stress would've also affected me.After 1~1.5 year, I managed to have an anal orgasm. Then it took some more months to become consistent.As for achieving an anal orgasm in sex, you need to be experienced in having them in masturbation, being in the mood and having a good top. Communication with your partner is essential, the prostate can change in position slightly depending on the person and you need to get in a good rhythm with your top.In short, read the guides in the OP, add a bit of your own research and don't give up.
>>11005003>How anal changed your life? Have your diet improved? Have you stopped doing penile/vaginal masturbation entirely? Something else? Tell us.Anal usually goes very well with a healthier lifestyle for me. Whenever I'm doing it, I try to stay completely penile stumulation free for as long as I can, I can often go for a few weeks or a month at best...Because I want to keep my butt readily available at any time, I'll reduce fast food, drink more water and add more fibers into my diet so I don't get nasty surprises whenever I'm in the mood. There's nothing more annoying than reaching down there only to have poop on my fingers/toy after a few minutes of feeling really good...It's not quite a workout but because it makes me move my entire body around while trying to go for different positions, it's a tiny form of cardio by itself, and if nothing else it makes me realize how much better my anal sessions would be if I had more mobility and stamina, which in turn will motivate me into going back to the gym and stuff... Coincidentally, when I'm not into an "anal period", I stop going to the gym entirely, which sucks, but it kinda adds up to that lazy lifestyle of mine where I'd rather fap and be done with it with some mild orgasm and a tissue... I also don't shower as much, because anal always makes a mess with all the lube and stuff, it makes taking a shower right after kinda mandatory and also very comfy. Because anal feels so good yet doesn't give me a refractory period, it doesn't drain me as hard as penile masturbation, so I still have both physical and mental energy. I'm also more on edge, more aware of myself and my surroundings, still enjoying this lingering horniness that never goes away, I feel more alive... Fapping is kinda like smooking weed from what I understand (never smoke but I'm assuming it works the same), in that it drains you and leaves you lethargic, only worsening depression and making you want to be even more of a couch potato.
>>11008029For some reason, anal also rekindles the sensitivity of my entire body, making not only my butt feel good but my skin overall reacts more positively to my own carresses, my thighs, stomach, neck, and obviously nipples... there's also the mental aspect of it, I feel more like myself, more sexually active, more likely to delve into my fetishes... for example, when I'm in the mood and in the middle of a session, I get turned on so much I sometimes start deepthroating my dildo (most of them are realistically looking oversized silicone cocks) and just imagining a real man invading my throat, choking on his cock and being unable to breathe in exchange of his selfish pleasure, I can very easily cum just from that, as in shooting rodes of cum from penis... it's kinda crazy, and clearly the kind of euphoria I never feel with simple penile stimulation, and very rarely when having sex with a girl... not that I don't like having sex with girls, but it's just not nearly as intense, you know...? Anal, moreso the few times when I'm going for bigger toys and when I'm dealing with a lot of anxiety, helps tremendously reducing stress. After I'm done fucking my butt with thicker dildos I feel much more calm and relaxed, but maybe it's just me... There's something cathartic about it, that kinda converts the pent up stress into blissful waves of pleasure...
>>11008033All in all, anal allows for a very virtuous circle that improves a lot of aspects of my life... but there are a few issues with that lifestyle, refraining me from permanently adopting it, that kinda forced me to take months long break, which saddens me a bit...First and foremost, I have to force myself to drink a glass of water+psyllium every morning and I really hate the taste... I tried mixing it with oats but it gets way too thick and hard to swallow...It sometimes gets frustrating when I have a very clean diet but still deal with an upset stomach some days, douching is not enough, and I hate enemas, it makes my insides all irritated and anal doesn't feel as good at all. So I get even more of a diet freak, refraining myself from eating a ton of less healthy food and it just gets very annoying.I'm also paranoid about getting too loose, although I never teared myself, I sometimes use bigger dildos and if it was only up to me, I'd play with those everyday, but I don't wanna have to wear diapers in a few years so it gets frustrating.So whenever I can't touch my butt at all for a few days, I just go back to my lazy habits, fapping and all that... it sucks but it is what it is.Sorry for the people who don't care about blogposts...
>>11008029>>11008033>>11008037Thanks for sharing that. I had a similar lifestyle change after adopting anal.>where I'd rather fap and be done with it with some mild orgasm and a tissueIt's hard to avoid penile masturbation and I sometimes do it because it feels like the sexual energy keeps building up to the point of getting in the way of my normal functioning. I get horny all the time and fapping releases that pressure.>water+psyllium every morning and I really hate the tasteI barely taste it. Put a spoon of psyllium in the mouth and then water, leave it there for a moment and swallow. It's routine now.>I'm also paranoid about getting too looseI think if you don't do fisting or extreme penetrations, you don't have to worry about it. And those who do extreme stuff claim they don't have any problem.Regardless, do your kegels. It helps in keeping you tight, using an Aneros and in sex. I can almost milk my top's dick just by squeezing and relaxing, basically controlling when they cum.BTW, I don't think you can really became "loose", just trained in controlling how your anal muscles behave. Again, kegels!>Sorry for the people who don't care about blogposts...I do like blogposts and you posted pictures so people can ignore the text if they want.It's all good.
>>11008015Thanks for long answer
>>11008057Usually I can get my horniness levels stabilized with a shower, but I'm really into the masochistic aspect of being frustrated all the time... Still, I can see how for some people it can get bothersome...That's an interesting technique... Just pouring it in your mouth huh... Might try that actually...I don't do fisting but... I think my biggest toy is about the size of a small fist, I only had it in once but it felt amazing, I will admit that I've been lacking regarding kegels. I should totally work on that, you're right.>I can almost milk my top's dick just by squeezing and relaxing, basically controlling when they cum.Oh my...! This is the dream right there.
Managed to make myself cum last night while stimulating my perineum only with my fingers. I had my balls and shaft tucked away behind me, then lubed everything up with spitWhen i buried my finger under my slippery balls, it almost felt like a different sort of penetration, kinda hotI'll try using the large end of my njoy so my wrist doesn't get as tired next timeI am somewhat worried that I'm stimulating myself too much when i tuck my dick behind my legs. I try not to let it move much, but it feels like "cheating" somehow
It feels like I've hit a wall around 10 inches deep that gives an intense feeling of discomfort whenever I try going past it. How helpful are long and thin depth toys like the slink in getting wider toys past there?
All this talk about getting or not too loose. How big is too big? At what point something in considered extreme penetration and/or may pose some risk to your anus?
are those soft orange toys you see on amazon safe? i've seen them posted here before and an anon said the flame test looked good. anyone have one?
>>11008255>At what point something in considered extreme penetrationThis is my particular definition, doesn't mean I'm right.Anything bigger than fisting I consider extreme penetration.I can do self fisting but I always need warming up and feel like I'm at my absolute limit. It has been like this since I started stretching taking my whole hand.Yes, some people can take more while other can't even do fisting.Personally, I think this is a good metric for defining "extreme penetration".For deepness, it's easier. It's when you go into the Sigmoid and beyond.
>>11008265I have a couple of them, I don't use them often, but the softness of them feels nice. I tried the flame test on them and I'm not sure what I'm supposed to see, but it didn't melt. There was black markings that washed off but also some grey stuff that sort of came off? I'm not sure what real silicone is supposed to look like because I've never tested ones from the trusted sites people mention here.
>>11006403i use this https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09D94T4RH/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 it works like advertised ive never had it have any backwash when emptied
>>11008290i think grey ash is supposed to happen. which toys do you have? the plugs with the long base look really nice but i'm not sure if i should go bigger than usual since they might get compressed inside my ass due to the softness.
>>11008313I have one of those kidney-bean looking ones with the longer base and I have a large plug that is more egg-shaped. That one has a much smaller base, so sometimes I get worried of losing it, but it's also so big that I'm not sure if that could happen. I don't use that one often though.
>>11008326yeah i'm interested in the bean shaped ones. looks very comfortable to sit on and maybe sleep with.
>>11005003>get horny>tease nipples, get enema, get lubed and ready>start with a small dildo>feel nothing except an urge to piss or an urge to shit with barely any of the tingling pleasure I feel when I tease my nipples >Get frustrated >quit until next time I get horny just why man
>>11008340have you tried rubbing your nipples to orgasm?
>>11008355Tried. however it takes way too much time and the pleasure can be overwhelming
>>11008336It's great for that, I've napped a few times with it in, it's very comfortable.
>>11008363i know what you mean i squirm like i'm possessed, but the pleasure is just everywhere not even the nipples>>11008369now i just have to pic between M and Land maybe get some oil lube
>>11008255There's just not enough research to draw any conclusions. I think its more about technique and frequency than size. Our bodies can handle some ogre shits but not when the dildo is shoved back and forth at high speed. I'm suspicious of long term wear of buttplugs too, it can't be good to compress your butt arteries for extended periods. Suffice to say nearly every anal pornstar that does fisting and above has some degree of prolapsing, though I doubt too many porn studios give a shit about safety beyond STD testings.
>>11008255Too big is what ever your master or mistress see as too big, slut.
>>11008424>every anal pornstar that does fisting and above has some degree of prolapsingFrequency plays a big role. If you do big insertions but give some weeks for your hole to recover maybe there's no much problems. Still, anal pornstars don't end up having to wear diapers AFAIK.Also, I love that picture and wish there were more like it (I'm stretched). This is the only one I have that's similar.
>>11007964Congrats you've turnedWhen will you start letting guys fuck your ass
>>11006358Seconding this, I also have this issueAdvice welcome
>>11008460hopefully soonzzz, ive been stagnant in my weight loss as of late. But being really into my asshole getting filled and hearing about the awesomeness of gay sex and bottoming has pushed me hard to continue losing weight. im gonna start maintaining my pubic hair as i think i want to record me fucking myself for other people.
Alright I need a lil advice:I definitely overdid it awhile ago, bounced too hard and too deep on my biggest toy and messed something up, had quite a bit of thin red blood when I wiped the next morning.Took about 4 weeks off from anything bigger than a prostate plug, tried some moderate sized toys, had a good time, no discomfort, orgasm achieved.Still had a fair bit of red staining the next morning. Bit of a surprise considering I didn't use anything huge, didn't get super deep and thought I'd taken enough time to recover.Do I just need to give myself longer to recover or what? I'm not passively bleeding, nor do I get anything while I'm cleaning out. I would have thought 4 weeks would have been long enough but I guess not?
>>11008381make sure you check the measurements because the kidney bean shaped one I have is a M and it's a comfortable size, but the other one I have is an L and it's massive.
>>11008499Congrats on your weight loss and I hope you progress more.Sex was boring for me until I started bottoming then it turned into another, much better world. I've been submissive since my late teens but insisted to be otherwise, big mistake.Get your pussy ready because many tops expect you to know how to take dick and not complain. Some will be patient if you ask them but they won't wait forever.>maintaining my pubic hairIn my experience, having your ass shaven is good enough for many. I shave pubic hair and ass, helps a lot in cleaning because dealing with hair full of lube and cum is a pain.>>11008516I heard that internal injury takes a long time heal. Never had in a situation like yours so I don't have other advice than checking with a proctologist. Sometimes is better to swallow your pride and be open with a doctor than losing the ability to have healthy anal sex.
>riding favorite dildo, like four hours in>its getting really fucking good, and my prostate is flaring to hell but I can't really get past the point to cumming>get really frantic from desperation and start bouncing like crazy because I only got like 20 minutes left before i have to do things>eventually manage to cum hands free after a really intense moment of constant bouncing for like ten minutes >now whenever i ride that dildo, i start cumming almost instantlyIt really should sound like heaven, but once I cum, I'm basically burnt out. So now I can't play with my favorite dildo until the very end it seems.
>>11005003>MindgasmAny tips on how to differentiate between the two muscles?
I've had a couple of sessions with my toys but it feels like I'm just creating what essentially feels like a large bubble around the entrance rather than getting deep. Is it supposed to feel like that? I'll put my fingers in and feel around but it just feels like I've created a baseball sized crater on the inside right after the entrance.
>want to be lewd today>clean myself out>get my favorite dildo (nothing fancy like you guys)>it's just long enough to get the head into the sigmoid>pounding away at myself>feel the tip of my cock tingling but I can't quite get over the finish line>fuck_it_well_do_it_live.gif>grab massage gun>use it on pelvis above where prostate is while railing myself with dildo>cum so hard that my arm cramps up and my ass squeezes the dildo so hard that I can't move it>nut 3-4x my normal volumeI'd still like to do it hands free but I'm satisfied tonight.
>>11008499Dude, try sucking a dick first. Cause maybe you fantasize about gay sex just because you play with your hole, not cause you're a slut eager to please other men. If you're not you might freak out when you firdt meet a guy for butt stuff
what do you like to wear for your session? i think i might get some fishnets and a collar, maybe leather cuffsi'm very twinkish so i want to make the most out of it but i've never worn anything sexy
can any chinesium experts chime in on which chink slink shape is better between a very gradual taper like https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08K33YGQW and mostly uniform width like https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BV1ZHPPT and https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09HKCVMJ5 ?>inb4 lead, ass cancer etc.yes, we know.
>>11005003>qotdMy huge shits don't hurt anymore. Blessed be sphincter training
>>11008743That's why you always agree to get tied up and blindfolded for your first anal fucking, helps you focus on enjoying the ride
>>11006753It took me a while before I got the hang of it. It really takes multiple sessions of playing around with it, learning where your prostate is, finding out what works for you. Try out different positions too, it feels very different lying on your side vs lying on your back. Try out lying on your belly too, the gravity will push it into your prostate.My go-to is having the small side in about halfway, then doing a tiny bit of in/out motion while turning the big end like a radio knob, essentially drawing circles within yourself. Focus on the feeling, try relaxing/tensing certain muscles (mindgasm helps a lot for discerning your muscles), and you'll absolutely lose your mind.Another fun one is laying on your back, again having the small end in and angled at your prostate, and moving your hips up and down, basically letting gravity push it into your p-spot.I mostly use the small end, but I know some anons here swear by the big end. Try out stuff and you'll find something that works for you.
>stories of getting trans escorts to dick you downGod I wish that was me. How do y'all find something like this? Do I need to install grindr, or are there other apps for this?
I thought doing anal play would lower my other sex drives, but actually it's increased them. I fucked my wife the other day after doing anal play earlier in the day, and when we fucked I basically lost it and turned into a grunting animal. My poor wife, though she definitely enjoyed whatever i was doing, I felt bad handling her with such ferocity. I wonder if the anal play reved me up more
>>11009019>How do y'all find something like this?I'm not from the US and here there's literally easy to find forums about trans escorts. Also there are sites dedicated just for them, no dating app required.These site lists the girls by location, a brief description about them and their phone number.You send a text message first since they may be busy and they return later. After that you may call her, chat and then you decide if it's worth or not.
>>11005477My dick is fatter than that. Want to try it intead? I promise it will feel good.
>>11005718I would just take the 6 inches and call it a day. When I have fucked girls they complain about me bottoming out in their pussy sometimes. Just pretend that's what's happening. You don't need to go all up in there. Trust me. I've been shoving things in my ass for decades, and going all deep in there seems totally uncomfortable, and not necessary. Focus on hitting the right spot, and focus on finding a toy that fits you. Instead of dropping bucks on a big long thing, buy a fucking machine.
>>11005144Man, I love looking down while being super fucking horny, and seeing my dick limp. It's so strange that it's such a turn on. Then the more it stays limp, the more horny you get from it.
>>11009052Those are scam sites
are nipple orgasms bad for your anal goals? do i need to be 100% anal only? i don't really want to risk unlearning nipple orgasms honestly
>>11009355Do you actually have 100% nipple orgasms? I get off with my nipples, but have a vibrator going at my cock at the time. I wish I could get there, but I can't get over the hump without a certain level of penile stimulation.
>>11009359yeah but it's all dry orgasms. same with anal for me.
>>11009363Ahh. I don't find that feeling as satisfying. Thanks for the clarification.
>>11009381i prefer it honestlyeven if i had a wet orgasm i might not notice because i don't make much cum and my cage is too tight to let it out.
>>11009312I love staying limp during masturbation/sex, it's the ultimate sing of submission.During the day I have random erections and I don't mind those but on the bed I must be limp and stay like that.Even if my partner sucks me as best as they can, I don't get hard.
Last night was awesome. I had maybe my best masturbation session yet though I don't do it often enough. I cleaned myself perfectly and had zero mess and took a break to pee so I didn't do the bladder squirt and I had a little prostate orgasm that made just a bit of fun trickle out of me.I'm so sold on anal, it's amazing, just perfect. I think I'm skilled enough with the whole process now that I could please a man regularly without hassle.
>>11009500>I'm so sold on anal, it's amazing, just perfect.Welcome to the club!>and took a break to pee so I didn't do the bladder squirtI pee before my sessions but I still trickle a bit and I love that.Some people may not enjoy squirting but that's ok.
>>11009317Not in Brazil
>>11006174I like the bulb process, the mini-ritual involved.
>>11006403Bulb
I think I need a boyfriend or a girl(boy)friend...I love anal orgasms but I always feel like I need to cuddle afterwards and not having someone to cuddle makes me feel sad.
>>11009648are you cute?
>>11009648Longing for gentle aftercare after a mistress or master had their way with me.
so im trying to achieve a HFO and i had my lovense edge 2 inside me. unlike last time, i tried solely focussing on pleasuring myself either nipple-wise or focussing on the vibrations in my ass. However something i notice is that my dick would just bounce up and down even though im not moving really, it would just keep twitching and feel like im on building towards being on the edge of a prostate orgasm. so my question is… Is my dick twitching on its own a sign of progress for a prostate orgasm, it used to leak precum a lot when i would insert stuff over and over in my ass but it wasnt leaking at all this time.
How do I keep lube in me when fuck machine pounding
>>11005831how do you identify sexually now? are you more open to full-on gay stuff or are you sticking with trannies?
is there anything that competes with a fuck machine? i can't deal with the logistics of having one currently.
>>11009916a boyfriend
>>11009919i would if i could
>>11009910>how do you identify sexually now?I consider myself bisexual because I feel attracted to female appearance but I'm bottom exclusive.>are you more open to full-on gay stuff or are you sticking with trannies?I rather have sex with transgirls top (trannies, whatever I don't care). I'm open to the idea of having a guy fucking me but I wouldn't romance him.For now, I'm sticking with trans escorts.
Any yuropoors here know EU stores that have a good price on Magic shaving powder, or any good alternatives to it?Shit's 9+ bucks a can on German Amazon and never sold in packs, even importing from US Amazon would be cheaper per can than that.
If my ass is sore for multiple days afterwards, I am doing something wrong? Going too big? Any risk of damage?
I bought toys and stuff from temu (unironically) and they are the same quality or better than local stores while being much cheaper. Some things such as chastity cage cost 10% of what they cost locally while being higher quality. Just have to make sure that the page mentions that the package is sent in a box if you buy a dildo. Even very cheap dildos are in nice quality silicone and are higher quality than high quality dildos from local stores.
Any recommendations for a good squirting dildo?I want to get both holes filled while getting spitroasted but I don't like men
>Don't fap for a week so I can HFO>constantly horny and grumpy>get mad at everyone at workThis better be worth it.
>>11010050Out of curiosity, what did you buy? Not sure I'd trust most Chinese toys because they could very easily be using toxic chemicals to facilitate cheaper production. A material such as glass would probably be fine as long as it's labeled borosilicate and not crystal, but I personally wouldn't trust metal or silicone products.
I’m reading all about you guys having blood and soreness and injuries and whatnot, while I’ve just started doing buttstuff, fucking the hell out of myself, with no repercussions at all. Explain?
>>11010089you are probably young, pliable, and heal easy from any little thing before it becomes biggergetting old sucks
>>11010050From a quick skim most things are about twice as much as on Ali, why not just buy them there if you're already buying chink stuff from a chink store?
>>11010089People here go insane with size but you hardly need any size at all to hit the prostate (which I like). The sigmoid is deeper in and hitting that is fun too but also dirty. Most peeps love a little stretch too. Chasing that usually means bigger and bigger toys until you have something bigger than your arm inside you and then when you lean over and things go badly.
>>11010091I’m 31.>>11010117I’ve managed to go past the sigmoid if I relax too.
Does a bigger dildo feel better?
>>11010185If all you want is prostate stimulation, an Aneros or maybe a 7'' dildo ought to be enough.Thing is, stretching and deepness are also be incredible pleasurable and that's why many progress in size.My go-to dildo is 9.5'' and I'm pretty happy with it now.
QOTD anal changes my mindset a lot, i can sometimes be a short tempered angsty person snapping at people and being generally rude but when I do anal regularly it chills me out so much, even as a teenager it was like this. It makes me mentally peaceful and more tolerant of other people, it sounds like a larp but I'm dead serious. Does anyone else experience this?
>>11005831I really really like that pic
>>11010197When I'm done with a session I often feel floaty, satisfied and in a good mood.Going to the bed in this state makes me I sleep very well and wake up energized.No, you aren't the only one. But I never had a problem with my tamper, so...
What you think guys ?
>>11010042Your ass shouldn't be sore period, painal is some porn meme. Slow down, use more lube, go down in size etc
is the wand really that good?
>>11010294Its pretty good if you like applying pressure directly to your prostate its amazing. Its very heavy and that can help do a lot of work for you. I bought a real one from njoy and its very high quality worth it IMO. 7/10 would recommend
>Decide to get into butt play>Eat better, get in shape, better relationship with friends and coworkers, get a promotion, less tired, clearer skin, more alert, can see a few seconds into the future, can predict the outcome of coin tosses with ~65% accuracy, able to move small objects with my mind, stock portfolio goes up 0.5% a dayI wish I started doing this years ago.
>>11010313You forgot to mention it turns you into a better programmer.
Anyone get more mileage out of squeezing their sphincter compared to their pc muscle when playing or just not having anything in their ass? I feel like moving my PC doesn’t stimulate my prostate anywhere near as much as squeezing my sphincter.
I know a bunch of anons here recently got the Hush 2. How have you all been liking it? I’m especially interested in if anybody can compare it to the Edge. I’ve been liking the edge a lot more than when I originally got it, but the shape still makes it a pain to use and keep in.
>>11006101depilating cream meant for intimate areas (I hear Veet is better than Nair) is probably your best bet, though I've never actually used it myself. I usually use the combination foil/trimming razor head on my Braun epilator. It's kinda tricky and usually takes a while to get everything as smooth as I want it, but I've gotten pretty good at avoiding cuts. I've tried to use to use the epilator head, but it really does not work well with the topography of my ass cheeks and lips. Tweezing is much more effective. Takes forever, though.
If you like your egg plug, try one of their blunt plugs too. It's a direct upgrade. Doesn't fit as snug as the egg but the extra stretch at the stem is delectable ;)
>>11006101i followed that homo kevin leonardo’s infamous nair tutorial and it helped making my asshole smooth as hell.
>>11008424>I'm suspicious of long term wear of buttplugs too, it can't be good to compress your butt arteries for extended periods.Per Squarepegtoys' website, some doctor has suggested that enerve compression is the main risk, with damage potentially causing incontinence. I've worn buttplugs probably 60% of the last month, but most of that has been with a much smaller plug (2" diameter) than what I can handle. I don't sleep with a plug unless I already know I can wear it for hours with no issue.>picMy hole looks like the stretched example. I do a lot of kegels, so I can still tighten a lot, but it doesn't take a whole lot of teasing to get me to loose/puffy/used examples.
>>11010637>enervenerve
waxing or hair removal cream?
Any tips for getting used to buttstuff with a partner?I can do plugs and normal/above average dildos with (what seems like) a normal amount of prep, but as soon as my bf puts a finger in me it just feels off. I've tried having him wear gloves, use different lubes, trim his nails, all that jazz, but as soon as he's involved with my ass it just feels uncomfortable
>>11010775Mental stuff. You are afraid to lose control over your butt. Unfortunately, I can only recommend practicing with your partner.
>>11005151ive really only seen one person do that and it's very obviously fake, most people are just off hrt and cum for real
Wish mode seven made more kino like this instead of weird ass slimy titty dick monster vore shit or whatever you call that trash
I have a dildo that is only 5 inches and it already feels WAY too small. I can hit the prostate with it but I wanna feel stretched out. How big should I go for my next dildo? I want something that is big enough and will take some time to get used to but isnt completely unrealistic
>>11010775I also find fingering uncomfortable. I don't know how to explain why, maybe the fingers are not big enough to stimulate me and feels strange.IMO, stick with dick and dildos. Tell your top about it, I'm sure he'll understand and it's not a big deal. He can still dick you down.>>11010851Keep this 5 inches dildo for when you want only prostate stimulation and get a 7 inches next.From there the increases in size is personal, so I'll tell mine.I started from 7in to 8.5in and now my favorite dildo is 9.5in. My next dildo will probably have this length but will increase in diameter.
>buy enema bulb>smells like plastic dinosaursIs it safe to use?
Why does thinking of being a girl make my prostate leak? Why would it make me want anal instead of making me get normal horny if it's agp?
how often do you go for a session? i need it pretty bad right now but i wanted to wait for the weekend.
>>11010197Makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. One way for men to fight each other without seriously injuring or killing would be to sexually dominate the other man. Getting your ass taken is nature's way of forcing you to chill out.
really frustrated that I love the feeling of fingers/toys/dick inside me but can't make myself cum from prostate contact. what am I doing wrong?
Id like to "buck break" myself. Meaning to be able to keep pounding my ass even if i haave already coomed...How do?
>>11005113I see peeing as a positive and makes me feel even more slutty. I see it as a sign im giving myself a good pouding just like a good whore should
wooo blogpost timejust had my first sober assgasm. much harder to achieve than with weed but also really satisfying when i finally got in the zone. because it's frustrating i rail myself a lot harder this way, i was on my back, legs up and together with one arm holding both knees. i really had to control myself because my lower body was just spazzing out lol. it's a bit scary how easily things slide in and out of my ass now.
>>11011061There is a certain satisfaction knowing you can now take more in your ass
I see a lot of you discussing prep which i understand. When i was younger it could get messy. So i would do prep if i felt it was going to be a long session. But now suddenly for some reason I suddenly dont really need prep or at least it doesnt get messy at all. I cant explain it. My diet hasnt reallynchanged... Also where i would use a lot of silicone lube in the past i now use a lot of spit with similar results
>>11011072i can fit two fingers along with my dildo. feels nice but i don't want to outgrow it, in my mind i'm training for a real dick.
what do you do when you really want to do anal but you're just not enjoying it
>>11008033Sauce on this?
>>11011126Just do it knowing someone will enjoy fucking you?Thats what women do. They derive alot of pleasure knowing they are making the other happy
Anyone have any experience with the 3D king cocks, the ones with the 'fanta flesh'? I'm assuming it's awful based on reviews.Any other suggestions for a real good quality dildo?
>>11010939Ur gay
>>11008516so if it was something serious (like a ruptured colon), you would have known the same day. You probably have an internal hemorrhoid (probably not too deep in you) that you are irritating when you play. You could see a GI doctor about it if you are really worried, but I would just give it 6 weeks or so of no anal, avoid straining to pass a bm, etc. If you don't have a fever, nausea, abdominal pain, bloody mucus in your stool, black stool (blood from higher up will turn your stool black), etc. or a change in bowel movements, then you probably just need time let it FULLY heal. You don't want to keep opening it back up, because each time you're risking infection, which could become serious. Not a doctor here obviously so take it with a grain of salt.
>>11011077Same, except I use water based lube. I don't understand how you guys are constantly filled with gallons of diarrhea. I'm not.
>>11010939>Why does thinking of being a girl make my prostate leak?Did you mean swell your prostate? Because that's what many (including myself) feel when you're used to anal.>Why would it make me want analAnal is more inline with being a woman since they don't have a dick to jerk off.>>11010942>how often do you go for a session?Every other day but I give a week of rest sometimes.
>>11010925Probably not. Get a medium cost silicone one. dont spend less than 80$
>>11010511How to find the sphincter?
>>11011335It's the muscular ring that keeps your asshole closed.
>>11010775It's good to get to explore penetrating your asshole on your own to the point where you can feel confident about its fuckhole potential.
>>11011335are you joking?
>>11007999sauce
Other than mindgasm, what are other good audio or asmr that I can listen to to focus on my p-spot
>>11010960revo stealth stays in place and rotates hands-free
>the dildo keeps slipping off the bathroom tilesI'm going to pop a fucking vein before i pop an orgasm
>spent whole yesterday evening bullying my ass>just had a dream with mostly just sounds of slapping and moaning and gruntingmy subconscious is getting it>>11011658i hate this too. but sometimes i'm so into it i just fuck myself still standing and reaching back
>>11008516We cant see up your ass, just get a doctor to check so you don't die from infection later
>>11008573Get yourself tied up and strap that dildo to a fuck machineYou're living the dream
>>11008743Nah that's gay man
>>11011675>but sometimes i'm so into it i just fuck myself still standing and reaching backdamn. I just dealt with it and fucked on the side into it enough that it stayed (somewhat) still.I also nearly got an anal orgasm to work, but my impatient ass couldn't handle just going back-forwards for another 10 minutes to cum so i just had to jerk myself off to finish it up. I wish i didn't have anxiety interacting with people on more than a basic level and shit looks so i could go and have the assfucking done for mei could probably complain even more about all this but who would really care
>>11011752>just had to jerk myself off to finish it upyeah try not to do this. maybe try a cage?i like lying on my back if i want to cum. holding my knees to my chest with my arm is a really intense and submissive pose.>I wish i didn't have anxiety interacting with people on more than a basic level and shit looks so i could go and have the assfucking done for me same same
>cut open "dual density silicone" toy>it's some putty under a 1mm layer of (really shitty) silicone skinPeople rag on chinkshit all the time but those at least behave like silicone unlike some shit local stores will sell you under silicone
>tfw having to fap 3 times a day to keep myself from touching my assAnyone else struggling to cut down on buttsluttery? I'm trying to get to once a week
just had the most intense HFO with a cage and a vibrating prostate massager. I was screaming. just needed to tell someone because holy fuck 10/10 would recommend.>qotdI stopped fapping "normally" almost entirely, only did it once this year. I feel proud of my willpower but at the same time I still end up doing some kind of alternative masturbation (anal / nipple / porn) at least as often, which takes longer. but god damn if it doesn't feel so much better, physically and mentally. feels less shameful and more true to myself or whatever
>>11011310>Did you mean swell your prostate?leak precum
>>11011934What vibrating toy exactly?
>inverted cage>nipple suckers>getting slightly choked by a ribbon of elastic band>ankles tied to thighs with a belt>fucking my brains out:3
Saw blood again today. I'm not gonna make it. Go on without me bros. I'm too impatient for this
i love long strokes from the prostate all the way to the bend, but it's so annoying when i accidentally slip outwhat do? any good positions for this?>>11012119i messed up today and went too rough as well, the lube had a slight red shade. at least i had the sense to stop as soon as i realized.
Have been making steady progress cumkming from my ass/prostate and had an insane session last weekend. Metamucil has been working great and my ass was sparkling clean no issues until this last 5 days. Make sure to get plenty of water but was so constipated the last few days i feel like i need to take a break so i dont flare it up. God is cruel boys.
I went from making ~$30k to ~$90k recently. I'm paid weekly now and every week is significantly more than each of the bimonthly paychecks I was getting before.My ass is in grave danger. I'm going to run out of room in my toy bin soon. I'll need to build a slut shelf. Suddenly a hismith seems like a trivial purchase. I am considering renovating part of my attic into a den of debauchery. Money really does change things.
>>11011849Why?
>>11011849No I slut out my ass as often as I can, why deny myself the pleasure
>>11012119Good luck in your fight against ass cancer
damn
>>11012323if money was no object, I would probably get one of those bondage chairs with stirrups like a gynecologist chair, then one of those fuck machines with remote control stroke length and thrust angle. Then get either a friend I really really trust or rent a dominatrix to help set it up, get all the angles right and everything. Then hop into it like every single hour.
i just came here to say that i got first prostate/or wet orgasm(3 in a row)... nothing special sadly
Hey guys i sorta just got into this stuff and started to use an aneros a few months ago. I get some pretty good feelings from it and have gotten some full body good feelings but i dont think ive had a prostate orgasm yet. I've been looking for a butt plug to wear (maybe while in a cage lol) that can stimulate my prostate without me having to do any kegels or other pelvic floor stuff. Do you guys have any reccomendations?
>>11010220Looks too rigid and not penile enough.
Thoughts on lovesense edge 2 is it any good? Im eyeing it as my next purchase
>>11012626Falls out too easily to be a really comfortable experience. Vibrations are great though.
>>11012626Overpriced dogshit
Can you faggots give it to me straight why are the answers for this so varied.Will a cage HELP or HURT my ability to p-gasm??A cage is a hot idea but if it has zero utility then I'd rather not have the circulation of my entire lower region be cut off while turned on
>>11012626I regret getting it
how do i work up to thrusting for longer without getting sore? just practice or do i need a non-water lube?>>11012732i really like wearing one and i can cum anally.>I'd rather not have the circulation of my entire lower region be cut off while turned onthat's not really how it works.
>>11012750>not how it worksHyperbole but your boner being stopped is uncomfortable to even the most experienced whore.The point was just is there functional utility or simply the idea being nice
>>11012756i usually forget about it when i'm fucking myself right. during good anal my taint is really swollen but i only have a semi at best. the cage makes it so touching your dick isn't an option and prevents it from brushing against your body or anywhere else so you can focus better. it's also just really hot and the mood makes a big difference with anal.
>>11012652>>11012731>>11012739Got a vibrating buttplug type toy youd recommend?
>>11008424Who is the artist?
>>11009648You have a female brain dude. Perfect for this hobby desu.
>>11012732Helps
>>11012928Just get a fuck machine and skip wasting money on small stuff
>>11012965Fuck Machine anon how do I keep the lube from getting fucked out of me
>>11012986reapply lube if needed, I got a little pump bottle that's helpful for just adding a little dollop when neededalso a lot of the time, it's more that stuff is drying out a bit rather than lube getting pushed to places where it isn't helping, I also have a little spray bottle filled with water that makes everything moist again
>>11011975https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/pinkcherry-that-s-the-spot-prostate-massagerdas it mane
I have finally lost enough weight to see a stomach bulge from hilting my Centaur XXL. Gotta say it's pretty mind-blowing to look down and experience your biggest fantasy for the past 15 years (yes I'm old) It's super hot to me seeing this huge protruding lump move up and down my torso as I bounce on this thing while feeling it rearrange my guts. Also just placing a hand on my stomach and feeling it push in and out is thrilling.I guess this is just horny posting to say follow your dreams, they're totally worth it
Best session I've ever had last night, made significant breakthroughs in identifying the kind of stimulation my prostate likes. All the time in the world to do it again tonight—but I'm too damn tired.It's not fair.>>11012986If you're going to be going deep for a long time, that's a situation where cumtubes really shine. Otherwise just reach the bottle back there and squirt some more on every once in a while.
>>11013393I have a medium Vector and the last couple inches are enough for it to start showing a bulge depending on what position I'm in, especially taking it from behind while semi-upright. I agree, it's just about the hottest thing you can experience.
>>11013393>Centaur XXLthis is enormous how do you people do this shit, are you just maxing out your sigmoid too? i can already see something moving above my crotch with my 1.5x6" dildo but that's probably different
Just had my first knot. Might type up a greentext about it later but right now I have this really nice fuzzy feeling in my head and I'm quite tired so I'm gonna go lay down and chill.
man It just got rlly messy i'm super bummed tn. Maybe try tomorrow but its not really possible I think. I didn't even eat much today just a snack bar and a handful of lunchmeat :/
anyone else take a really long time to warm up?takes me like 30-50 minutes of foreplay and stuff before my (fairly average) dildo goes in and out comfortably. after cleaning and getting ready i always get really tense and kinda nervous even if i was horny before.Do i just not do it often enough? normally go like 3-4 times a month
Qrd on deeper penetrations? I added an extender on my hismith that turned their basic dildo into a 40cm something long fucking machine and I didn't expect it to feel this good, though I'm kinda worried of going that deep. Should I avoid going too fast at that depth? Am I causing any harm to myself by reaching so deep?
>>11013725What did you add
what's your favorite position? i like to rotate between these three>lying on my back is very relaxing and i can position my legs together or apart for different sensations, makes depth play easier>bouncing my ass off my heels gives a really steady rhythm which i love and isn't too exhausting, very fun with music playing>suction cup to the wall hits the p spot well and i can watch myself in the mirror but it's a bit annoying to get right
You guys are really lazy to create a new thread, damn. Call me a butt slut and I'll forgive you.New thread>>11013924>>11013924>>11013924
/fit/fag and relative newfag to putting things up my ass here. My fiancee has a huge pegging fetish that we haven't explored yet. We do other kinds of kink/BDSM shit and switch roles a lot in that, but she's never pulled the strapon out.I'm VERY into the thought of her topping me and I want to start training in secret so I can surprise her sometime in the next few months/however long it'll take to work up to taking a decently-sized dildo.You guys' thread has a lot of good information and I think I've got a good roadmap for general progression. I do have one question about hair--it's not a forest down there but my legs/ass do have moderate hair. She likes it, I like it and I don't really want to start committing to full shaving unless it's a serious obstacle. Can I get away with leaving my hair down there as is or trimming it, or is a bare ass mandatory for this?Thanks in advance,/fit/fag
>>11006734Dont we all?
>>11005075>large dildo + vibration from a massagerYou're going too hard too fast. Find and learn to massage your prostate first, then you can experiment with more intense stuff.Imo, pleasure in masturbating and sex comes from completely different things. When I masturbate, I get pleasure from gently massaging my prostate, feeling the pressure slowly build up, playing with different implements on various parts of my body. Sometimes if I'm in the mood I'll go crazy riding a dildo all the way up and down, but nudging a buttplug so it presses on and off my prostate is what feels best most of the time.During sex, I get a lot of pleasure from having a guy on top of me, touching me, nibbling, pinching, etc. I like seeing his pleasured face as he uses me. I like feeling him throb inside me. They almost never hit that spot with any kind of consistency, and I don't expect them to.Tl;dr: dont try to immitate porn. Explore your body amd figure out what feels nice for you. If nothing feels nice, you might just need to accept that. Sometimes fantasy doesn't live up to reality
>>11005151Porn isn't real, anonDon't hurt yourself trying to do something unrealisticSex is about feeling, not spectacle